| You Are Married
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Now What? |
A Legal Checklist of Things You
Should Do After You Say "I Do"
June marks the beginning of summer, and
summer is the most popular time of year to march down the aisle. July
is the most popular month overall for weddings, according to the National
Center for Health Statistics. While weddings often involve months of
preparation and attention to ceremony details, the legal decisions a
couple makes after they tie the knot can also have a very big
impact on their future together. Following is a legal checklist of things
a couple should do after they say "I Do":
- Change bank accounts, identification
and credit cards if you have taken a new name. Notify Social Security,
get your driver's license reissued, contact your bank and credit card
companies and have the passport office issue a new passport with your
new name.
- Fill out new beneficiary forms.
If you have life insurance, call your insurance company
or agent to request a new beneficiary designation form, complete it
promptly and send it to the insurance company. Also file new beneficiary
designation forms if you participate in a life insurance or 401(k)
program at work or have an IRA. You should do this even if you intend
to maintain the same beneficiaries. You will need separate forms for
each policy or plan. Then follow up to be sure the new beneficiary
forms have all been recorded.
- Adjust your health insurance.
If one or both of you both have health insurance, decide now if you
want to put all coverage under one plan. In many cases you may get
better coverage and/or save money. Most employer sponsored health
insurance plans allow only a short time to add a new spouse.
- Write a Will. Make a decision
now about who you would want to inherit your estate. In the event
of a tragedy, your beneficiaries would be those your states
legislature chose for you. (Your wishes would not be honored, and
your survivors could be tied up for years in probate court.) You may
want to protect your children from a prior marriage, or your parents
or siblings as well as your spouse. And if you already have a Will,
make sure you quickly prepare and execute a new one. In most states
your old Will is no longer fully enforceable.
- Designate "community property".
If you already own a home or condo together you may want to file a
new deed and hold it as "tenants by the entirety" or, if
you live in Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico,
Texas, Washington or Wisconsin, as "community property".
- If you have a lot of assets, shared
or otherwise, consider a post-nuptial agreement. It may be an
unpleasant thought right now but it is practical, provides peace of
mind and can protect you and your assets.
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