The irs official I am working with is uncooperative, arbitrary, and unprofessional - impossible to work with. What can I do to avoid this dour-faced tax man?
If you are finding yourself jousting with an opinionated, intimidating, and unfair IRS official, ask to see his manager, or contact an official at IRS Problem Resolution, or hire an outside professional. A tax professional may be a better go between as they are not emotionally involved and they work for you. It is important not to let personal differences stand between you and access to your rights.